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  • Why are some women so hostile to pregnant women and mothers? I'm pg with my first and already I've gotten some dirty looks and even an angrily muttered "Breeder!" as I passed this crunchy-looking woman in a restaurant. WTF?

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    05.09.08, 03:57 PM [ Flag ]
    • nyc is full of bitter birds whose eggs are cracking by the hour

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      05.09.08, 03:58 PM [ Flag ]
      • jealous

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        05.09.08, 03:59 PM [ Flag ]
        • see this assumption that others are jealous is the justification for so much bad behavior on the part of parents. not everyone wants ot be like you. if you assume they are jealous, that pretty much tells me that you are behaving badly and deserve the criticism

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          05.09.08, 04:04 PM [ Flag ]
      • ita

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        05.09.08, 04:00 PM [ Flag ]
    • Oh, I don't think so.

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      05.09.08, 03:58 PM [ Flag ]
    • Tell her mother is a breeder

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      05.09.08, 03:58 PM [ Flag ]
    • It'sin your head.

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      05.09.08, 03:58 PM [ Flag ]
      • Really.

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        05.09.08, 03:59 PM [ Flag ]
      • No, it wasn't. Normally I would agree but my friend heard it too and was as shocked as I. - OP

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        05.09.08, 03:59 PM [ Flag ]
    • there is a group of people who loathe the "breeders" - someone posted a link to a hysterical website about it once. I don't think it's by any means widespread though.

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      05.09.08, 03:59 PM [ Flag ]
    • there is definately a backlash against families as sooo many new Yorkers with children have seen it as carte blanche to be a$$holes. Sorry bit its ture. I am an aspiring breeder but I think there are soo many obnoxious parents in this city

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      05.09.08, 03:59 PM [ Flag ]
      • Yeah but I don't even have a kid yet. It's pretty bigoted to hate me because I'm pregnant. It's not like I wave my belly around like a weapon, shoving people out of my way with my bump.

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        05.09.08, 04:01 PM [ Flag ]
        • were you being oblivious? so many people with kids expect everyone else to get out of their way and they take up the sidewalks and expect everyone to accommadate them. did you do anything too selfish?

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          05.09.08, 04:03 PM [ Flag ]
          • Did you read my post? I don't have kids. I was walking normally, in a straight line, to the door.

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            05.09.08, 04:04 PM [ Flag ]
        • np: It's not about you. It's about other people and their issues, whatever they may be. I posted below about how someone berated me in front of my child. I did nothing to bring that on other than be there and be a pregnant mom.

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          05.09.08, 04:04 PM [ Flag ]
          • so you may think

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            05.09.08, 04:05 PM [ Flag ]
            • No. I know when I'm being obnoxious. This lady was nuts. She spit at me when I asked her not to swear in front of my DD.

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              05.09.08, 04:07 PM [ Flag ]
    • I had a nasty old woman berate me on the sidewalk when I was pg w/ #2 and out walking with #1. She also used the term "breeder," which I thought was funny at the time.

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      05.09.08, 04:00 PM [ Flag ]
      • You should have told her she was going to die old and alone

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        05.09.08, 04:05 PM [ Flag ]
    • You probably did something oblivious and rude because I've never heard of anyone saying that to someone who wasn't being a jerk. I'm a mom and I hate pregnant women who feel like they're entitled to not pay attention to the world around them, hard as it is to do.

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      05.09.08, 04:01 PM [ Flag ]
      • I didn't do anything but walk from my table to the door of the restaurant. Sounds more like you have a problem there... - OP

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        05.09.08, 04:02 PM [ Flag ]
    • bizarre...although I had to laugh when after hearing dh and myself complain about dog-people blocking the sidewalk in our neighborhood. dd muttered, as we were passing a mom blocking the sidewalk with her huge stroller, "baby people." We still laugh about that one

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      05.09.08, 04:13 PM [ Flag ]
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