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  • i took dd to get mani pedi with me. she is 4 and we go to neighborhood place where they know us and we always go when its not busy. this woman was upset b/c the woman she likes to do her pedi was painting my dd's nails and she said loud enough for me to hear..."when did this turn into gymboree". I didn't say a thing since i didn't want to ruin the great time my dd was having but now I wish I could go back and tell the C you next tuesday off

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    05.09.08, 04:14 PM [ Flag ]
    • better for your dd that your didn't

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      05.09.08, 04:15 PM [ Flag ]
    • Why the fuck did you bring your four year old to the nail salon? Leave her home or get a sitter--this isn't rocket science. When I go for a pedi the last thing I want is to hear someone's child babbling.

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      05.09.08, 04:16 PM [ Flag ]
      • my, you're charming

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        05.09.08, 04:16 PM [ Flag ]
        • No, just someone with kids of her own who recognizes that not everyone wants to spend time around my child. Nail salons are for grownups.

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          05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
          • wohm.

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            05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
            • - yep, she's such a WOHM who has the time to get pedis during her lunch hour

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              05.09.08, 04:24 PM [ Flag ]
      • Your poor, poor, POOR dh, how miserable he must be, regretting the day he gave you that ring.

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        05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
        • No, we're happy because we're not self-indulgent yuppies with a sense of entitlement a mile wide. Funny how that works!

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          05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
          • I guarantee he agrees with me.

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            05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
            • I doubt you could get a man to look in your direction, let alone agree with you on anything.

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              05.09.08, 04:19 PM [ Flag ]
              • that might be a decent remekr if you had any proof as to my looks (clearly you don't) whereas you outed yourself as a horrific wench. mother, wife and neighbor by your post. GL.

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                05.09.08, 04:20 PM [ Flag ]
                • Not sure what you were trying to say but add "barely literate" to "ugly", "probably fat", and "inconsiderate"

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                  05.09.08, 04:21 PM [ Flag ]
                  • It's the ugly, bitter ones my dear who troll around here. GL when dh files!!

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                    05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
                    • I'm guessing 250 with an open container of chocolate icing and VHS tapes of Maury playing in the background. Let me guess--lots of cats? I doubt you read much.

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                      05.09.08, 04:24 PM [ Flag ]
          • OP here and my dd was not running around screaming and carrying on. she was a patron like anyone else and actually the adult was the one babbling and carrying on. my dd was happy to have her nails done and sat and was very quiet

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            05.09.08, 04:20 PM [ Flag ]
            • Yeah, a four year old sat and was quiet having her nails done. You act as though I've never raised one (three, actually) of my own.

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              05.09.08, 04:20 PM [ Flag ]
              • np. you obviously should not take your dd to salon, but mine would, i took her once when she was about 3, completely fine. she also sits through an entire ballet. my ds, on the other hand.

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                05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
              • OP: and based on your attitude and nastiness it is no wonder they are little devils too. I'm sorry but it is possible to have a 4 yo who sits quietly.

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                05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
            • actually you know what is annoying? two grown women friends going together and talking loudly to each other so we all have to hear their convo. that happens a lot. but it's their right. I don't have a problem with a nicely behaved dd. it's not defined as an adults only activity, like fine dining or something.

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              05.09.08, 04:22 PM [ Flag ]
      • first of all this is not a fancy place at all and we went in the middle of the afternoon....I know plenty of people who do this with their dds

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        05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
        • It doesn't matter who else does it--it's rude and inappropriate. And the time of day doesn't matter. Some women have busy schedules and can only go during the day, so should they have to be disrupted just because you're too cheap/lazy for daycare, a playdate, or a sitter? Get over yourself.

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          05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
          • homigod, you are NUTS IN THE BUTTS, ladyfriend.

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            05.09.08, 04:20 PM [ Flag ]
          • first of all at any point in my story did I say my dd was disrupted. also this is a walk in and there were 5 other manicurist ready to help her but she wanted the woman who was painting my dd's nails to do her pedi. who was the brat now?

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            05.09.08, 04:21 PM [ Flag ]
          • np: omg--you sound truly miserable if you are getting worked up over this issue. chill woman and take your meds.

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            05.09.08, 04:21 PM [ Flag ]
          • How about this - I want to take my kid to get her nails done, whether you like or not.

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            05.09.08, 04:22 PM [ Flag ]
            • That's great, but I will continue to sneer at your badly behaved brat and after you leave the tech and I will joke about how gross and trashy you are. C'est la vie.

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              05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
              • and by doing that you will only reveal that you are the trash!

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                05.09.08, 04:24 PM [ Flag ]
              • I don't really care what you think! I really don't.

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                05.09.08, 04:24 PM [ Flag ]
                • Then why did you post the thread? Obviously you do care that some people have the guts to call you out on being a 40 year old brat.

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                  05.09.08, 04:26 PM [ Flag ]
                  • Not at all, sweetheart. I'm not the OP. I'm so enjoying myself tonight.

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                    05.09.08, 04:26 PM [ Flag ]
              • np: but it's not a given that a 4 yo dd would behave inappropriately. lots of 4 yos can sit for 20 min and get some color painted on and be delightful. it's not as if they give a dc the full job of hot stones and towels and soaking etc that takes a long time.

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                05.09.08, 04:26 PM [ Flag ]
                • OP: there were 5 manicurist sitting around. this was down time. also dd had her nails painted not filing nothing

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                  05.09.08, 04:27 PM [ Flag ]
        • ignore her, she's been trolling for awhile. dh probably filed today.

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          05.09.08, 04:19 PM [ Flag ]
      • NP: I bring my dd to get her nails done.

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        05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
      • np: you are a nasty whench--since when is it a crime to bring a child into a public place? so what if it's a nail salon? it's not a spa for chrissake

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        05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
        • A private business is not a public place and a nail salon is no place for children unless it's one of those mommy and me salons. From the OP's description, it sounds more like she gets her nails done and lets the kid run around the place bothering other customers. Not exactly uncommon in places like Park Slope and the UWS.

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          05.09.08, 04:20 PM [ Flag ]
          • Oh, please. You're a lunatic.

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            05.09.08, 04:22 PM [ Flag ]
            • And you're probably one of those mythical stroller nazis who give normal moms a bad name. Thanks for that.

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              05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
          • you suck in a really big way and I bet your kids think that too

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            05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
          • If it's no place for children, they wouldn't be giving her child a manicure.

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            05.09.08, 04:23 PM [ Flag ]
          • OP: read again you angry idiot. did I say I let her run around? DD has been there 4 times! and there is no way I let her run around. Also, I have a nanny and she was home with my ds...so I'm not a newbie

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            05.09.08, 04:26 PM [ Flag ]
      • Who cares what you want?

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        05.09.08, 04:21 PM [ Flag ]
    • your dd doesn't belong there. can't you do her nails at home?

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      05.09.08, 04:16 PM [ Flag ]
      • wohm

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        05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
        • what does this have to do with anything

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          05.09.08, 04:21 PM [ Flag ]
      • give me a break - it's a neighborhood place. If she's paying she can get her nails done. There is no age limitation

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        05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
      • itttttta

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        05.09.08, 04:25 PM [ Flag ]
    • Wow. She was a jerk.

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      05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
    • i make it a point to get my nails done w/o my kids. i don't think the staff or the patrons want them there anyway.

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      05.09.08, 04:17 PM [ Flag ]
      • fwiw it's pretty common to see a little dd at mine. not every time, but maybe every 3rd time? and usually they are about 4 and well-behaved. I haven't had mhy own dd get her nails done.

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        05.09.08, 04:18 PM [ Flag ]
        • OP: that is why I take my dd, now my ds he is a maniac and I would never take him to nail salon with me

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          05.09.08, 04:31 PM [ Flag ]
      • It's also a liability for the salon, not that these self-entitled mommies care. Hmm, I'll let my brat run around a salon full of hot and sharp things and then sue if my darling child hurts herself or slips and falls.

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        05.09.08, 04:22 PM [ Flag ]
        • what the hell is wrong with all of you??? If a dd is also getting a manicure or pedicure, they are sitting in the chair like any regular patron- I have seen tons of kids in nail salons- they are either A) in their stroller sleeping or sitting quietly or B) in the chair getting nails or toes done, not running around the salon like a lunatic

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          05.09.08, 04:27 PM [ Flag ]
          • OP it is the same woman posting. she obviously has a comprehension issue since she seems to think i let my dd run around. i know plenty of 4 yos who can sit still and respect their environment

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            05.09.08, 04:29 PM [ Flag ]
    • dont let it bother you. that woman is obviously a miserable person.

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      05.09.08, 04:47 PM [ Flag ]
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