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Bored DH at work... any questions?
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05.21.08, 12:53 PM
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What do you do for work?
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op: finance
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buy side or sell side? I'm DH Buy side
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Have you ever considered figuring out a permanent remedy for your boredom? It seems that you get bored every day at 4pm.
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op: when I say bored, i'm just talking. usually I take a break. i'll probably stay at my job until after bonus season and then look for a new role.
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What do you do?
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op: finance
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Is your name Joe?
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you could really just say it like it is. "wanted: virtual fellatio. any givers on?"
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np: i'd prefer actual fellatio. any givers on?
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There are always guys on craigslist looking to blow straight men. I would bet you cash money that they give fantastic head.
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thanks for the tip!
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any time! and FYI--they'll let you do them in the can, too!
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sounds awesome!
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happy hunting! bring your own condoms and lube.
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op: didn't know that was an option. are you offering?
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My ass. You do this every day, with the shining hope that the chat will turn dirty.
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op: I only answer questions. If someone asks about sex, I answer, but don't initiate
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I know your MO.
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np- gee whiz, man issues much?
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I don't have man issues. I'm talking about this particular man. And I'm not angry about it.
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ok, just seems very harmless and its always nice o add a little male perspective here.
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it is! I was just curious how he would respond if I called him out.
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op: called me out? i feel that I'm pretty transparent
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oh, you are.
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np- you are right---i feel for it, once---pretty exciting though
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I've talked dirty with him, too. I'm just having a little fun with him.
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np: an anonymous chatter scorned!
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it did fire my imagination....
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op: what did we talk about?
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probably my love of deep throating and submission.
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op: sounds hot. please elaborate on submission?
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hair pulling--being forced to do what you want me to do. etc.
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op: what do you mean by forced? role play?
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not like lonely sailor/horny schoolteacher, but forcing slightly beyond limits. you know, this works better with the "post inside" option.
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op: who cares if people read it. i like a good hair pull, definitely sexy. i feel that sex should be about passion, not making love.
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i like being held down and forced to take it deep
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np: how do you keep from gagging?
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How do you usually use passion when you have sex?
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you practice. some people don't gag, some can learn not to. I like to be pushed to the point where I do.
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What does your wife think?
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op: think about what?
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Between sex as passionate vs. making love/
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op: she's probably mixed (50/50%). so we don't always see eye to eye on that (so to speak). probably one of our few disagreements
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What do you do when she wants to make love and you want wild, passionate sex?
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op: it's hard, i can read her signals, but it's not the best sex for me then
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What do you consider the best sex for you?
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op: very passionate, hot, talking dirty, etc.
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or: my dh and I roughly take turns. we'll do one time my way (nasty, rough, name calling sex) and then his way (2 minutes)
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I love doing it like this, so does DH. God its getting me hot thinking about it
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op: why is his way 2 minutes? your way sounds the best.
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Another DH here: Go bro, I have the same issues as you in getting my wife to see it that way every time. She wants calm and sweet talk, etc.
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dh likes quickies--just to get off & go to sleep. that's why we alternate.
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it gets me hot, too. i may have to beg for it tonight.
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np: i'm a dw and i wish dh liked rough sex - he's the gentle one, i like it hard adn rough
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what will your DH think?
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i had to teach my dh. it took him a long time to really understand how hard I like it. now he accommodates pretty well.
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op: have you asked him? i'm suprised that he is not into it? i guess some guys aren't.
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my dh does (it's hard to see who is who w/the new boards) but it took a long time for him to get over the idea that he was hurting me.
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he will when he's had a few martinis but sober not a chance. i don't know if he's afraid he'll hurt me or what or if he has some notion that it should always be gentle love making. i'm all for a variety but i really like the hot steamy sex.
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What is throating?
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deep throating? very deep blowjob.
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^are you foreign? or just sheltered?
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he's a nerd, this is his porn
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op: what did you fall for?
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a little intriguing suggestion re., you know....the s word
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skedaddle?
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yes I did...before I got myself into trouble
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np: you know you want some anonymous dh on here to bang you, just face it
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on the computer? naaa, not that way
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op: a little voice is telling you to give into the temptation.
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what's the s word?
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Boxers or briefs? Why?
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op: boxer briefs. best comfort
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What brand and color right now?
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op: black, calvin klein
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really sexy! why those?
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Bet you look great in them!
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They'd look great on my floor.
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op: good work. though, you'll need to earn it.
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Oh I'll work to earn it. DH is working late tonight you know
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op: that's what I like to hear. so where are we going?
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You could come over here or maybe we can find someplace else. What were you thinking?
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op: meeting for drinks first
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Of course, I would like to at least get to know you first
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so you up for it?
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op: sure lets go. no harm in meeting for a drink. i have dinner plans so would have to be late. email me at coff1235@yahoo.. lets coordinate meeting for a drink another night
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yeah let me look at my schedule
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you had no problem your e-mail address here? What is your wife or friends saw it/
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op: made up email (not main one).. gotta go. been fun chatting. hope to continue
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You know its been a week since DH and I had sex and I really need to have sex, especially with a cute guy who loves passionate sex
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op: are you the same as above? why a whole week?
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he was working late and I had a sinus infection
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I am the same as above
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NP: wish my dw thought a week was too long...been about a month
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Why so long? What kind of underwear are you wearing?
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she's just not that horny and her 'peak' time is late morning/early afternoon, which just doesn't work with dc's around. boxer briefs - comfy but keeps the boys in place.
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^^but I'm always horny so basically j-o every day. have developed some very good fantasies!
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What are you fantasies?
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lots of being the dominant and having a submissive to do what I want, when I want, how I want. I have a few particular women who are usually involved. Everything from forced anal to public sex and sharing them.
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Nice. How old are you? ever cheat?
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36. couple times with prostitutes.
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Where did you find the prostitutes? How was it with them?
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you'd be amazed what you can find on craiglist. there is a whole section for "erotic services". It was pretty good with some and terrible with others. I found that those who have been doing it less time are more fun, because they are into it. Still not the same as finding a true sub would be. Can only go so far, and I don't have the cash to be spending a lot of money on that.
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Where would you meet them?
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they usually have hotel rooms
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do you like my fantasy? Does DH do that with you?
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Yes DH has done that to me and its alot of fun
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every think of having 2 guys at once? would dh be into that?
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I have and yes DH would be in to it.
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wow..didn't expect that answer but like it! how old are you?
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I am 32 and yes I'd love to try 2 guys at once and I have asked DH about it and he said yes he'd do it.
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want to meet up?
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How would we?
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could chat on email first - nychobbyist at yahoo
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thanks, get on chat
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I'm on
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Black so it doesn't show dirt and skidmarks?
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Age and where do you live?
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op: new york, 29. you?
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New York 31, I think we talked once before
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Ever cheat?
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