Austin Moms: Anyone a member of the Lifetime where the 4.5 yr old drowned on Friday? A lot of people are throwing around blame - which I don't want to do because I wasn't there - just curious if you still feel comfortable with your young kids at that pool? I am not sure. In general I think the guards do a pretty good job

OP: ITA, I watch my boys like a hawk, but I stay shallow with my 2.5 yr old and my 7 mo, BUT IF I turn my head for a moment and lose my kid, Id hope that the lifeguards would pay attention. I think I am going to just have 2.5 year old wear a life jacket since I have another kid in my arms. I didn't want to give him that false sense of security with a life jacket - but it is my obly option to have fun this summer in the water and be safe