[-]Name your best plans for spring break. looking for ideas that don't cost a lot of $$$ and just for a few days (13 yo boy).
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[-](whoops, forgot to tag...) Fifteen years ago, I arrived for my first day of fifth grade as a boy instead of a girl and was met with shock, horror, and resistance. Fifteen years later, I'm looking for NYC parents of transgendered or gender-fluid elementary schoolers willing to talk about their experiences for an article I'm working on. For more info, email me at: transyouthnycschools [at] gmail [dot [com]. Thanks!
5 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]My 5 yo dd will only wear her brother's hand me downs (or shop in the boys' section) and wants a "boy" haircut. She only plays male characters in her pretend play. She asked me why girls aren't allowed to be brave. We've been talking about how some PEOPLE are brave... some men are brave and some women are brave and some men are not brave and some women are not brave. I've bought lots of books featuring female protagonists, etc who are not weak, who are not damsels in distress... Dd has been told on the playground that she "needs to be a princess" and can't be a prince. I've spoken with her teachers about this and they have been very supportive. I've done research into gender dysmorphia and gender nonconformity and, truth be told, I th...
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[-]Birthday gift suggestions for a 13-yr old girl? (under $30). Thanks
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]mom of soon-to-be 13 yo here. they are soooo picky at this age. Easier to give them a gift card - itunes is a favorite; also mani/pedi gift certificate, clothing store gift card (American Eagle, Abercrombie, department store, even target, barnes & Noble). my dd's favorites are the itunes cards and the gift cards by Visa or Amex.
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[-]How much homework does your dc have each night? What grade? Is it more or less than other comparable schools?
9 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]My first grader gets about 30min per night. I'm not sure how it compares to other schools, but so far isn't too bad for us.
[ Reply | Options ]1st grader - gets 3 pages of spelling to do over 3 nights, 10 pages of math to do over 5 nights (including weekend), 20 minutes of reading a night, a book log, and one more in depth booklog question to be done in one of four nights. It's really not bad, takes 20 min to do the homework plus 20 min reading
[ Reply | Options ]1st grade gen ed public. Gets a packet on Monday that's due Friday: 4 pages math, 4 pages writing/spelling, and needs to read and log 4 books. Takes about 20 minutes a day for us but probably longer for some kids and faster for others depending on their level.
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[-]Any ideas where my 13 year old could start sharing stories/ songs, possibly places that pay? I've no idea if it would work out but she loves writing and I'd like get to be able to work towards goals and improve skills.
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]look into www.themoth.org or www.speakeasystories.com.
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good luck. a writer acquaintance of mine is involved in both. it may be an avenue to meet like-minded people at least. this is an article that was written about the writer and she mentions both of these sites: http://www.27east.com/story_detail.cfm?id=264820&town=&page=1 My dd likes writing too and has found her way into acting & performing (12 yo). Great to have creative kids!
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[-]Another question for anti-tv/anti-video games moms? What are you doing posting here? Why aren't you off making organic legos and free-range gi-joes?
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[-]The crying 10-yr-old post got me wondering. If a 10-yr-old girl is starting to get (tiny) breasts and act hormonal--is definitely in early puberty--is that cause for concern, or within the range of the (new) normal? Should I be discussing with a pediatrician?
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]ped mom who responded to that post. no 10 is normal. definitely not avg but within the range. if your DD is 8, then call your ped.
[ Reply | Options ]Yeah, sigh, that's what I thought. Seems depressingly early (and is waaay earlier than me), but she does seem fine otherwise.
[ Reply | Options ]maybe its all that not organic milk (LOL)- did you see that post? yes, it is early, sorry you have to go thru this. DH's sister got her period at 9. my MIL called me freaking out! bring it up at your next well visit, or call if you want, but no reason to worry, it is within range.
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[-]How do you find a good tutor in NYC? DC needs one to prepare for bio SAT 2. Other mothers are way ahead of me and not happy to share. Please help.
13 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]competitive advantage-www.catutoring.com
[ Reply | Options ]We've used a couple of tutors from Brownstone Tutors, both of whom were fantastic: http://brownstonetutors.com/whoAre.html
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Check out my favorite local tutors, http://www.gramercyparktutors.com a jewel in the City, a real different company!
[ Reply | Options ]Check out the service we used: www.gramercyparktutors.com
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[-]Graduation gift recommendations: Can anyone think of an appropriate gift for a graduating HS senior? The soon-to-be graduate is the son of a friend and I would like to do something to mark the occassion. He is a really nice kid and has worked really hard. TIA.
6 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]I'm tempted to suggest a complete set of Jane Austen. It will serve him better in life than most gifts. Another thought is a gift relating to where he's going to college (if he is going now). Maybe help pay for a summer program in something in which he is really interested in (photography or drama class, for example).
[ Reply | Options ]is money too tacky? honesty i think that is what most graduating seniors would want. $100 or $200 depending on your relationship and financial situation.
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[-]DS going to classmate's Sweet Sixteen party this evening. Giving cash gift. What is appropriate amount? $50? $75? $100?
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[-]Subways - walk to the right up and down stairs and stay to the right on escalators. Subways - step off the train to let other people get off at their stop, then get back on. TWO EASY RULES - NOW FOLLOW THEM AND EVERYONE WILL BE HAPPIER ... AND GET TO WORK FASTER AND WITH LESS AGGREVATION. thank you.
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[-]Do WOHMs cook dinners every night? Or do you use a lot of frozen foods? Just curious how it can be done. I like to cook from recipes, but basic things, like breast of chicken and pork chops, along with a starch and fresh vegetable. But don't see how I can keep that up if I go back to work.
19 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]Why wouldn't you be able to do this if you work? How long does it take you to prepare a meal?
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We buy prepped food for during the week (like from Fairway or other types of places). It's not as good as home-made, but it's normally inexpensive and perfectly fine. We also cook on weekends and eat leftovers for a day or two afterwards. Another option is to cook a lot more on weekends, and then freeze. Rarely have time to make a real meal on weekdays because I prefer to spend time with the kids from the minute I get home until they go to bed. So DH and I aren't starting the meal prep until after 8pm.
[ Reply | Options ]We do this but I also will make things on Sunday and freeze that will be quick later in the week like veggie burgers, brown rice, bread, soup bases, dashi (broth for miso soup) or a turkey breast for sandwiches during the week. If we are having meat that night, we cook it that evening as well as any veggies sides. You can do it. You have to be organized.
[ Reply | Options ]I sort of cook, meaning that I prepare fresh things for 1 yo DB to eat and then usually eat what he has. But I eat very simply--grilled chicken breast with rice and one vegetable, or I'll heat up some Veggie Patch brand falafels and serve them with hummus and pita bread. Applegate Farms cold cuts are good for both us, and DB. etc. I love to cook a lot, but do not want to sacrifice time with DB to do this. So, it's a struggle finding the right balance.
[ Reply | Options ]Both dh and I cook maybe four nights a week. We have four kids and eat dinner as a family at 8pm - after the toddler is in bed. We order in two nights a week, and maybe the third is prepared food or left-overs. The kids love our cooking and we love to cook but it's super exhausting.
[ Reply | Options ]I cook every night except Friday, which is pizza night. Some easy things: Broiled sausage and salad (chicken apple sausage from FD is a big hit; broiled salmon over lentils; pasta with meatballs/meat sauce made on the weekend; couscous with chicpeas and veggie; chicken marinated in almost anything, then sauteed; fajitas (marinate the beef all day, then throw it under the broiler). I cook while I review homework and the kids both help out.
[ Reply | Options ]the key is to buy meat in bulk, marinade them, then freeze them in individual baggies. that way, you leave one out in the AM, and when you get home, just dump the whole baggie in pan and voila! i also like to make really simple meals, like tonight, pasta with meat sauce. onions, green peppers, garlic, ground beef, jar of marinara sauce and wham! dinner! and bags of frozen veggies is key for side dishes.
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st barth's--there's much more going on. mustique is basically a private club set on a beach. unless you know a ton of people there, there's nothing to do. Btw what does this have to do with schools?
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St. Barths is nice...but kind of boring. And the people are nice, but kind of boring.
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